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Intersection of Polyamory and LGBTQ+
Comparing polyamory to LGBTQ+ identities often happens in discussions about social justice, rights, and visibility, but the comparison can be both helpful and problematic depending on context and intent.
Polyamory and LGBTQ+ identities aren’t the same, but they share common ground. Both challenge societal norms and face stigma for how people love or identify. While LGBTQ+ identities often reflect core aspects of who someone is, and polyamory is more about relationship structure, both deserve respect, visibility, and autonomy. Solidarity matters. The unique histories and struggles of each should be honored.
Polyamory IS NOT Polygamy
What’s the difference between Polyamory and Polygamy?
I was recently asked this question. As I write about loving polyamorous relationships in my novels, I want to be explicitly clear:
MY NOVELS CONTAIN ONLY LOVING RELATIONSHIPS. THERE IS NO COERCION OR ABUSE. AND THERE IS ALWAYS A HAPPILY EVER AFTER.
Note:
If a polygamous relationship involves consent, honesty, and equal autonomy among all partners, without fraud, abuse, or coercion, it can share many characteristics with polyamory. In such cases, the main difference becomes primarily legal and cultural rather than relational.
Mathematical Example comparing polyamory & monogamy math
Monogamy – a single equation with a unique solution:
x+1=2 ⇒ x=1
Polyamory – more than one valid solution
∣1+x∣=2. ⇒ x=1 or x=−3
Behind the Spice – boundaries over obedience
A conversation about boundaries is always healthier than a blind expectation to obey
Bisexual Health Awareness Month
Bi+ people face disproportionately high rates of mental health struggles, violence, and healthcare discrimination. For resources https://bihealthmonth.org
Passion, heartbreak, and resilience come together in this unforgettable romance … Willful Parties
Jealousy in Polyamory
The strongest relationships incorporate the ability for growth. This makes for the most interesting character arcs.
Creative Ways to Celebrate Valentine’s Day
Not only is it Valentine’s Day, it is also Creative Romance Month
Five Creative Ways to Show Your Love
- Leave Post-it notes around the house with reasons why you love your partner
- Go to puppy yoga together – there’s nothing like puppy love
- Read a passage from a spicy romance novel together
- Who doesn’t love and need a massage
- While your partner is in the shower, throw their towel in the dryer
More Heat, More Drama…Romance books with a threesome
Unlike a regular romance book with one relationship, a threesome dynamic has 4 different relationships.
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