Embracing Neurodiversity: Celebrating Unique Perspectives



Neurodiversity day
Recently, I’ve been recognizing signs of neurodiversity in myself. Rather than seeing that as something to change, I’m choosing to embrace the things that make me who I am.
As a polyamorous author, I’ve always been drawn to the spaces where people challenge expectations and create lives that feel authentic.
The world is richer when we make room for different ways of thinking, connecting, creating, and being.
Acceptance is not about making everyone fit the same mold. It’s about recognizing that there was never only one way to be human.
If we were all clones, the world would be so much less interesting.
The Art of Love: Embracing Polyamory and Abundance

Wind whispers through fields of flowers.
Petals carried by the breeze.
Shivers
And pebbled skin.
Classic watercolors fill the walls,
Careful strokes, built over time.
Too pretty not to share,
Gifting to appreciative friends.
Until only one remained,
Memories of love linger.
Freshly painted white walls
Beams of sunlight dance.
The one piece remains,
Highlighted in the expanse.
Satisfying.
Yet not enough.
Not emptiness,
But space.
Not a void,
But opportunity.
While counting daily steps,
Exploring a local gallery
Hidden in a corner,
Ensnaring my attention,
Black and white photography,
Exposed and unseen.
Alighting curiosity,
Lip caught between teeth.
Evaluating the cost,
Weighing the value.
Plotting the placement,
Clashing with the other.
Hanging it on the opposite wall
An attempt at balance.
It did not fill the space,
It added to the room.
Two walls.
Two perspectives.
In time,
Another curated work.
One wall remained empty.
Open for the future.
From an overfilled room
To a bountiful heart.
Room For Polyamory is a reflection on making space for a life that fits, while still honoring what came before.
This poem uses the metaphor of a home and its artwork to explore love, connection, and abundance.
The room is about both the physical space and the capacity, permission, and emotional space to love more than one person.
The poem is not about throwing away the beautiful things we inherited. Some ideas, traditions, and loves are meaningful, even if they no longer belong in the center of the room. Like cherished artwork, they can be appreciated and given a place where they can be seen clearly.
The empty walls are not a void; they are a possibility. Creating a more curated life takes patience, reflection, and careful choices. New perspectives do not erase the old ones; they create a larger, richer gallery.
It is a journey from a room that felt overfilled to a heart with space to breathe, explore, and grow.
A Slow Reading Month Isn’t a Failed Reading Month

I’ve always been a slower reader when it comes to physical books, though I can usually plow through an audiobook at 2.5x speed.
This month, though, reading just wasn’t connecting for me the way it normally does. It wasn’t because of the books themselves. This isn’t a criticism of any of the authors. My reading rhythm was just off.
It’s easy to compare ourselves to others in the online book community. I’ve seen readers consistently finish 30 or more books in a single month, and that’s genuinely impressive. But comparison doesn’t tell the whole story. We all read differently, have different schedules, different reading habits, and different relationships with books.
I also know how easy it can be to drift away from reading. High school English classes ruined reading for me for decades. What was once a source of joy became something that felt like work, and it took a long time to rediscover my love of books.
This slump doesn’t feel like that. It feels more like a natural ebb and flow. And maybe that’s not a bad thing.
Stories need tension, quiet moments, setbacks, and turning points to make the payoff meaningful. Reading can be the same way. Not every month is going to be filled with five-star reads and overflowing TBR progress. Sometimes a slower month makes you appreciate the great reading months even more.
So while four books isn’t a huge number by some standards, it’s where I am right now. I’m grateful for the stories I read, and I’m hopeful that June brings a little more reading momentum.
How was your reading month? Do you ever find yourself comparing your reading pace to others?
Image: taken May 2, I don’t know what kind of flower this is, but in May and June, the scent is heavenly.
#booklover #bookcommunity #reading
Happy Pride – Every Story Matters, Every Love Wins

My books are LGBTQ+ positive. They are full of characters, love stories, and worlds where everyone belongs. This Pride Month (and every month), I stand with my LGBTQ+ readers, friends, and community.
You are seen, you are celebrated, and you are always welcome here.
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Overruling Judgment
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