Monogamy doesn’t eliminate jealousy.
Critics of polyamory often claim jealousy dooms the relationships, but jealousy shows up in all relationship styles.
Most jealousy stems from insecurity, unmet needs, comparison, or fear of loss.
Whether in monogamy or polyamory, the root lies within us, not the structure of the relationship.
It’s not about saying one model is better than another. It’s about encouraging a mindset that focuses on being curious, embracing discomfort, confronting assumptions, and investing time and effort. One of the most powerful lessons of polyamory is the dedication to honest self-analysis and open communication. That’s what really sustains love.
If monogamous people spent more time on improving their relationships than bashing the concept of polyamory, divorce rates in the US might not be 40-50%.
Polyamory
Trust and Desire
Deep Emotion
Fighting against judgment
Strong FMC
Laywers
Bold Polyamory: Unapologetic Love Stories
Overruling Judgement (MFM)
Defending Engagement (MFM)
Willful Parties (MMF)
Today, I’m reading Fake by Tate James. What are you reading?
Most surprisingly read: The Cheater’s Club by Stella Grae
Warmest romance: Off to the Races by Elsie Silver
Most thoughtful romance: Pucking Around by Emily Rath
Most satisfying romance: The Game Changer by Lana Ferguson
Hottest romance: Liar by Tate James
Quickest romance: Formula Chance by Sawyer Bennett
Favorite Cover: Game Changer by Rachel Reid
Most frustrating ending – Slay by Laurell K. Hamilton, For the love of reading, I’m thirty books into the series – I thought it was going to end.
Image: Mt. Hood in Oregon, photo taken at a family wedding. This was the backdrop when the couple exchanged vows. Pure romance inspiration.
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