What’s the difference between a Fet!sh and a K!nk

Fetish – Commonly referred to as a needed object to be included. Because that can be an over-exaggeration and not an actual must, a better definition refers to it as an “erotic supercharger.”

Kink – Involves a preference for an act, location, or dynamic.

https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/kink-vs-fetish#fetish-defined

Common Kinks:
Virtual sex
Orgasm control

BDSM
Age play
Role play

Common Fetishes:
Feet
Latex
Nylon
High heels
Uniforms
Suits
Leather
Piercing