Addressing Common Opposition to Polyamory

January 24, 2026 lizellyn Romance, Uncategorized #Nonmonogomy, #polyamory, #PolyLove

Let’s address the opposition to Polyamory

Jealousy: jealousy happens in all relationships. I’ve discussed this in many posts. It’s about how you deal with it that is important.

Stability: 40% of all marriages end in divorce. It is a lot of pressure to expect one person to suit all of your physical, emotional, and intellectual needs for an entire lifetime.

Cultural Norms: Why must people yuck others’ yum?

Ethical Doubts: 65% of people cheat at least once. Marriage isn’t a shield against cheating. And open relationships are not a form of cheating.

Practical Hurdles: All relationships face challenges. Those challenges aren’t the same for every couple, regardless of the type of dynamic.

Is Polyamory the same as Why Choose?

October 11, 2025 lizellyn Romance #Nonmonogomy, #polyamory, #PolyLove, #relationships, #romancenovels

Polyamory is a concept that includes many variations of relationships involving more than two people.

Choosing appropriate terms within polyamory is important as language shapes understanding.

Why Choose is more intended to be used as a trope in fiction

Sometimes an author can incorporate both polyamory and why choose in a single novel/series.

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Polyamory isn’t the cause of jealousy

September 20, 2025 lizellyn Romance #LoveWithoutLimits, #Nonmonogomy, #Polaymory, #PolyLove, #relationships

Monogamy doesn’t eliminate jealousy.

Critics of polyamory often claim jealousy dooms the relationships, but jealousy shows up in all relationship styles.

Most jealousy stems from insecurity, unmet needs, comparison, or fear of loss.

Whether in monogamy or polyamory, the root lies within us, not the structure of the relationship.

Lessons to Learn from Polyamory

September 13, 2025September 13, 2025 lizellyn Romance #Nonmonogomy, #Polaymory, #polyamorous, #PolyLove, #relationships

It’s not about saying one model is better than another. It’s about encouraging a mindset that focuses on being curious, embracing discomfort, confronting assumptions, and investing time and effort. One of the most powerful lessons of polyamory is the dedication to honest self-analysis and open communication. That’s what really sustains love.

If monogamous people spent more time on improving their relationships than bashing the concept of polyamory, divorce rates in the US might not be 40-50%.

Is Polyamory morally wrong?

Image September 6, 2025 lizellyn Romance #Morality, #Nonmonogomy, #Polaymory, #PolyLove, #relationships

Hot Take: Jealousy Exists In Polyamory

Image August 30, 2025 lizellyn Romance #jealousy, #Nonmonogomy, #polyamory, #PolyLove, #relationships

Polyamory Boundaries

August 23, 2025 lizellyn Romance #LoveWithoutLimits, #Nonmonogomy, #polyamory, #PolyLove, #relationships

Polyamory thrives on clear communication, trust, and healthy boundaries.

The truth is, most people exploring polyamory know from the start that communication is the glue holding it all together. Every relationship, polyamorous or monogamous, deserves respect, openness, and care. However, in polyamory, there is intentionality when it comes to communication so that love can expand without confusion.